Deployment instructions to Mr. Man
By Hannah Ojo
I am sending you to go and bring a woman who will open the doors of favour and opportunities onto you. She will also partner with you to achieve your goals.
She cannot be like you at all. She is fragile and very sensitive.
You are the head and she is the neck, so you both are partners in progress.
You’d be surprised if she finds it bizarre that you did not realize she’s there
to help! So, to help your task, here are some vital instructions:
1. Don’t ever try to ignore her but correct her in love if she ever
develops a fault. Like our elders say; ‘to remove a creeper waved around the
hunter’s neck requires patience’. You’re a husband, a representative of my
image on earth. I don’t particularly like it when you shut her down. Talk to
her lovingly because I the Lord your God I’m love. You should be a physical
manifestation of my love to her. You can only make her better if you love her
my way.
2. Well, I’m your God and first love, but your wife is next and your
first partner. To get the best of her, you need to respect her like you would
your Mom. She is not an
empty barrel; she was created for a purpose too, so help her achieve her
dreams. Your savior’s earthly father; Joseph, the husband of Mary is a replica
of this, so learn from him.
3. You will realize that she fumes and complains about many things.
She is as Shakespeare wrote: “Do you not know that
I am a woman? When I think, I must speak!” I know your ego does not like being
questioned, so resist the urge to get confrontational. Remember, our level of
maturity can be seen by how much it takes to get us upset.
4. She is a woman of God but still human. She needs your words of
assurance to aid her self-esteem. Tell her she is beauty the way she is. Tell
her you love her-always. Even though she may find it awkward to make the first
move, she also has need for attentions so don’t play politics with her
emotions.
5. She hates competition; don’t give her the impression that there’s
someone out there she has to share your attention with. She wants to be the centre of
your attention and appear chic; that’s why she is crazy about fashion. But
there is a trait she wants you to develop: enduring love. So be to her a better
teacher, lover, father and more considerate, patient and faithful.
6. She respects intelligence so go the extra mile to develop yourself
so she would be able to trust your sense of judgment and respect you. She also
wants you to look attractive for her; neat haircut, trimmed nails, neat cloths,
good oral hygiene and good physique. With your tight schedule; I know this may
be a tough task but you are a man, you should be on top of your game!
I’d give you more but these are what you need for now. You will
learn more as you progress into the union. Meanwhile, keep in touch with me in
prayers and communion. It is through this that you will get the wisdom needed
to rule your family without strife and confusion and you will be able to build
a house where I am God like the Psalmist wrote in chapter 144: 12-15 “so that our sons may
be like plants grown up in their youth; and our daughters may be like
corner-stones, polished like a palace building; and our storehouses may be
full, furnishing kind to kind; and our flocks may breed thousands and ten
thousands outside”. Love her like Christ loves the church and she will be
to you, the wise woman in Proverbs 31.
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